Have you ever wondered what it’s like to read other people’s minds? Here are 6 ways that will always help you find out if the guy is flirting with you.
We cannot teach you how to read his mind, but we are capable of teaching you to read his body language which is quite efficient. Check out 6 signs telling that the man is really attracted to you.
1. His warm-hearted and sincere smile.
A smile is always a positive sign. Smile back at him and let him approach you. This will make your very first contact friendly and warm. Do not be shy and come up to him first if you like him. Expressing your friendliness first is never impolite. A small talk about this and that to break the ice is also a good idea. Be yourself! Be simple and down to earth. This will help to release the tension between the two of you. Do people consider you a tough nut to crack? What we suggest is that you leave your ambitions and attitude for a while. And remember that you will never get a second chance to make a first impression.
2. Eye contact
This is something that you cannot rely on 100%. Nevertheless, pay attention to it. Do not avoid eye contact if you like the person. During a conversation this merely means that you are listening to the person and that you are fully focused on what he is saying. If you noticed that eye contact lasts longer, then the guy is likely to be genuinely interested in you. On the other hand, a short eye contact can be as expressive as a long one. It all depends on the person’s temperament and character. Some guys might like you a lot although their eye contact will be rather short.
3. Hands on hips
Do not ignore his posture. If his thumb is in the belt loop or he prefers to hold his hands on the hips, then he is certainly interested in you. This kind of posture tells a lot about the guy’s temperament and character. Such signs are typical of very self-confident people. Some ladies do not find it attractive at all, though, and interpret it rather impolite and sometimes even rude or offensive.
4. A flirting touch
It’s good if you noticed that he gently touched you. It means that he needs even more of your attention. Did you enjoy his touch? If yes, then, then continue communication. You can even touch him back. Make him feel wanted and show him that you are also attracted to him.
5. Raised eyebrows
Less courageous guys usually hide their eyes when they are around the girls they like. This is quite natural and even charming. But if his eyes open wide and his eyebrows raised, this can be interpreted in one way only: he is definitely into you. Watch for this sign during your conversation.
Does the guy you are with look nervous? Do not worry. He is fidgeting just because he is excited to have met you. This has probably happened to you before and you know how it feels to be around someone you have got a crush on. Initiate a talk and let him feel comfortable around you. And it’s perfectly alright for a girl to start conversation.